Resources

Understand you & your partner’s needs

The Love Language™ Quiz

‍This is a great simple way of uncovering what type of things make you feel most loved. Is it quality time, is it gifts, or maybe one of the other 3 love languages? You can invite your partner to take the quiz too and share your results.

Discover your erotic blueprint

Erotic blueprints and breakthrough with Jaiya

Have you ever thought about your erotic love language? No? Well here’s a super easy way to start the exploration and learn a bit about what your erotic blueprint is.

I can also recommended this fascinating blog post about the invention of the erotic blueprint: The origins of the erotic blueprint types

What desires do you have in common?

MojoUpgrade

MojoUpgrade has a heap of questions around what you want sexually or sensually from a partner and would want to give. It’s a fun activity to get to know your partner’s desires better.

‍One person answers the questions first then is given a link to share with the other person. They follow this link and answer the questions for themselves. At the end it will show you what you have in common.

Relationship to Yourself Free Health Check Tool

Relationship to yourself free health check tool by Zoe West Coaching

Get immediate insight into how healthy your relationship to yourself is today

By using the free health check tool, you'll uncover exactly which areas of your relationship to self to prioritise working on next and which ones to celebrate.

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Explore your sexual interests

Sexual Activity Consensus List

Ready for more? This sexual activities list is quite extensive and gives you more of a scale to vote on, such as ‘I'm not sure how I feel about this but would like to discuss it.’

Note that it includes some very k!nky suggestions and doesn’t allow you to hide the things you aren’t interested in.

ScarletTeen: Yes, No, Maybe

Yes, no, maybe so: A sexual inventory stocklist

Although designed for young adults, there are some great prompts in this inventory stocklist around things like boundaries, Words & Terms, Safety as well as sexual activities.

ScarletTeen is a wonderful resource to have on hand if you have teenage children or know someone who does.

Zoe's resources

You can of course always check out my blog too and snoop around my social media profiles :)

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